Sunday, June 7, 2026

Chicago, Chicago

First I have to apologize to all my fans for not posting since last year. I have no excuse. Life has been more than adequately interesting. I simply forgot. 


OK, so thanks to The Glory of Groveling, that's done. I'm free and happy to move on.

Posting today from Chicago, where it's been a whirlwind of activity, starting on Friday with my first-ever baseball game at Wrigley Field. Despite a long rain delay and a miserable performance by the home team, we felt very sporty and Chicago-y amidst 40,000 very loyal Cubs fans.

By "we," I mean Charlotte, Hannah, Sean and me.

The old green scoreboard is still updated by actual people.

Pete Crow-Armstrong at bat against the Giants pitcher Robbie Ray.

Me and my gal pal

         After the game, Hannah and I went to an Andersonville pub for dinner.

Cheers to my best travel pal!

On Saturday, we all visited the Museum of Science and Industry. I wanted to see the touring exhibit of the Anne Frank House, which includes not only a retrospective of her life and the legacy left by her diary, but also a to-scale version of the annex in which she and her family hid in Amsterdam. While the Anne Frank exhibit was a solemn time, we had lots of fun afterward, as you can see below, when Hannah and Sean stood in the middle of a mock tornado.



And I saw one of the Apollo Command Modules.

The highlight of the museum was an exhibition about costume designer Paul Tazewell, who designed the costumes for Broadway's Color Purple and Hamilton, as well as for the movie, Wicked. His story is so inspiring, and his designs and artistry are a delight to witness, on stage and in person.




We capped off a busy weekend with the BEST dinner at the Michelin restaurant, Galit, which serves Middle Eastern food (my fave) that is so delicious, I wanted to hug the chef/owner Zachary Engel when he walked by. (I did not do so, however.)

Two kinds of tahini hummus, pickled vegetables, ezme, labneh, spring pea salad and house-made pita to start.

Charlotte and Sean in front of the Michelin awards.

Lamb stew, turkey shwarma, pastrami, and lobster for the mains.

Mezze: Kubbeh, falafal, borek and a ribbon of foie gras on house-made challah toast garnished with raspberry jam. And for dessert...

Chocolate babka and a coconut pudding with strawberry swirl.

We stuffed ourselves, rolled home and watched videos 'til we fell asleep. A perfect day, and a special weekend with my favorite people. Life is good.












Sunday, November 30, 2025

Snow White Thanksgiving

After inviting ourselves to Hannah's Thanksgiving last year, we made a return appearance with the rest of the Becknell clan for a party of eight. It was great!

Hannah is always the most gracious host. Here she is playing Vanna White with her stuffing, or as they say in the midwest, dressing, which is totally confusing to me.

Charlotte and Sean arrived with their 15-lb. turkey, who, we were assured, lived a good life on an organic farm where it enjoyed free range and healthy grains and quality time with its poultry friends until -- well, you know. 😮

Justin and Kate flew in from Maine, and Justin quickly lent a hand in pie-baking. Kate shone as a conversationalist until there was no more to be said and we all went to bed.


Shoes and boots piled up by front door, but wait, there was one more...

Josh flew in and added his talents to Hannah's preparing the cheese board. He also brought lots of sweet treats, including Sharon's yummy homemade jams.

Wisconsin cheese and charcuterie

Hannah's stuffing, Charlotte's mashed potatoes and yams, Hannah's green-bean casserole, and turkey, roasted by Sean and carved by John. (Not shown: Hannah's spectacular brussel sprout side dish, as it was too big to fit on the sideboard)

Pumpkin, cherry and oatmeal black bottom pies with freshly whipped cream!

Mom time

Dad time

Feast time and...

Snow time!





Last but certainly not least, Becknell cousin time in Minneapolis

David, Jessalyn, Elyssa, Chris, Grayson and Uncle John.

Now it's airport time, as our flight is delayed. Oh well, time to share the weekend with you. Happy holiday season!










Wednesday, October 29, 2025

Ending thoughts and images

I’m writing this final post about our Italy trip on the flight back to LAX. I’m filled with good memories and inspired by the people we met, the places and sites we visited; by our miles traveled by foot, train, bus, funicular and plane; by the gastronomy; by the history and the art and the natural beauty of the countryside we traversed. Travel is such a great way to engage with the world, to consider different perspectives, to learn about cultures foreign to our own.

Perhaps ironically, our Italy trip ended in France with two days spent with our friends Jean, Claire and Huges, and in many ways, these two days were a highlight of the entire trip. As I mentioned in the previous post, we toured Lyon, the capital of Auvergne, where they live. Lyon is a very creative town with a lot of pride in its food and its unique culture and history.

Although it rained on our first day there, we walked about 600 steps up Fourviere Hill to see views of the city. 


Fall colors

Firefighters training on hose carries up the steps

Once at the top not only do you great views, but you can visit Basilica of Notre Dame, which rivals any of the other basilicas we visited in Italy (and it’s also a Jubiliee church).


The mosaics with gold tiles were particularly beautiful.

 

Below the Fourviere in the old town are secret passageways between streets that were originally built so silk workers could travel through town without getting wet. In WWII, resistance fighters used the tunnels to escape from German occupiers.

The passages hidden behind ordinary doors are called traboules.

Across the Rhine, Lyon showcases a moving statue and fountain by Bertholdi that blends realism with mythology. 

It’s so beautiful and dynamic, definitely one of my personal favorites from the trip. By the way, Bartholdi also made the Statue of Liberty.

 A more contemporary addition to the town are a series of murals by a company called CitiCreation. Here is just one of them.

After Lyon, Jean drove us to the medieval town of Perouges, which was idyllic. It feels completely authentic and not commercial at all despite its appeal to tourists like us.

Of course, we had to sample a local food specialty.


Man-powered wine press from the 1500s.

It’s impossible to share all the photos, and also impossible to show how grateful we are to have such good friends with whom to enjoy our travels.

This thought leaves me with a general reflection about the last 32 days away from home. What I miss most — and the reason I’m eager to return — are the relationships with people who feed my spirit, soul and imagination, people who serve as role models for living life fully and in integrity with who they are and who they want to become.

Our dear friend Patrick died while we were away. He and Randy were also great travel companions who joined us in Idaho, Arizona, Idyllwild and Colorado, as well as so many great times in and around San Diego. Patrick was one of these people who filled us up. He was a devoted husband and father. He was an extremely talented artist who used his creative energy to design and build stunning cabinets and wood furniture, to nurture a greenhouse of orchids and a garden with a koi pond, and to cook for friends and family. He spent his life studying and learning to be the best man he could be, to live in integrity and to care for the people he loved. It’s hard to return knowing he isn’t with us anymore.

We return with heavy hearts, full hearts and full bellies, with gratitude, with an eagerness to share the joie de vivre that we acquired in Italy and France. I return a year older, and we return now with 30 years of history together, a milestone we celebrated every day of this adventure. For all of these blessings, we count ourselves so fortunate.


Chicago, Chicago

First I have to apologize to all my fans for not posting since last year. I have no excuse. Life has been more than adequately interesting. ...